Gay Teens Suicide

The tragic deaths of gay young people taken at their own hands is terribly disturbing. The most recently publicized six who chose this way of escaping the hate and bullying of the homophobic public, families, and peers are only the most recent incidents of this nature that have been occurring for years, if not decades.


I have begun to wonder if there are local gay teens who are facing the daunting task of living lives true to themselves, and what resources might be available for them in our immediate area. Questioning a local gay advocate I am assured that there are many young people in that situation, but there is little evidence that significant steps are being taken within the school districts to address the issue. Organizations such as PFLAG, or GLSEN, offer help, but they are not located within our immediate area even though there are opportunities for assistance by phone. How much more beneficial it would be for kids to be able to relate face-to-face with concerned supporters and mentors is a question that is not easily answered. Would they, if they could?


The primary basis for alleviating homophobia - the root of this issue - would seem to be education. A successful proactive approach would destroy the misconceptions and fear that give birth to the destructive attitudes and acts of much of the general public. How to do this is a monumental question that unfortunately has no quick answer. But, our kids need immediate avenues to safety and assurance. So, it begins with a grass-roots effort by individuals and organizations to develop the means of help.


Where do we begin? Town/city boards, school districts, churches, fraternal organizations, and other duly organized local groups would seem to be logical starting points. Eventually, coalitions should be assembled that would be a repository for effort, direction, and results...simply to reduce duplication of effort. Perhaps each coalition encompassing an area of responsibility equal to each individual school district statewide.


How do we educate? We can provide information by whatever available means...newspapers, radio/TV, brochures, etc. We can hold forums and assemblies, and become an informing presence at local events. We can live openly, becoming positively involved within our communities and state with pride in who we are and for what we can give, showing others that our sexual orientation does not need to be the focal point of our existance.


Can I make a difference? Yes, I can. By becoming involved, by broadening my horizons beyond my own limited/limiting circle. By communicating with my friends and aquaintences, enlisting their support and involvement.


How soon? NOW!

I would welcome your comments and/or opinions.